A Girl from a Catalog, or How to Choose a Bride over the Internet!

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The Biggest Disadvantage of Online Dating

Our attitude to a person of the opposite sex depends on a variety of factors –his or her appearance is just one of the factors. We perceive and assess information using a variety of channels: vision, hearing, sense of smell, sense of touch and taste. Sometimes we even can’t explain why we are mad about this particular person, or why we are disgusted with another one. It’s something above our understanding, a special chemistry, a unique combination of a visual image, the sound of a voice, the smell of a body, someone’s manners, the behavior and actions that make us fall in love with someone.

Online communication lacks many of these components, and this is the reason why many people are skeptical about online dating agencies and online chatting. A PC’s monitor can’t transfer emotions; it can’t transfer smells and touches. This is why, often online romances end up in disappointment, following the first real-life meeting. Still, online dating is chosen by millions.

What Should We Know About Online Dating?

When you look through portfolios of hot Russian brides or women from other countries, take into account the following nuances:

– Women always choose the most flattering photos for their portfolios. Some of them hire professional photographs and make pictures of studio quality. Professional makeup plus stylists’ work do wonders to help someone improve their beauty.

– Photoshop can correct everything that hadn’t been corrected with makeup. An ideal color and smoothness of skin, white teeth, glossy hair and full breasts – all of this can be added by a skilled Photoshop user.

– Even all-natural photos can’t reproduce thousands of details that we see, feel and hear during face to face contact. We see a person from the most flattering perspective, while a lot of details are omitted.

Does it all mean that it is senseless to try to build relations via the Internet? Of course not. However, specialists give some recommendations for how to raise the efficacy of online communication.

What Can We Do to Make Online Communication More Effective?

Regardless of whether you are chatting with Spanish mail-order brides or women from your home country, use the following tricks and strategies to prevent disappointment from your first real-life meeting.

– Look not only at the main profile photo but also at some others as well. Try to find natural photos apart from those that were obviously made by professionals.

– While communicating, ask for some additional photos, videos, and maybe even make a call using a webcam. These options may be less attractive, but they will be more natural.

– Don’t delay your real-life meeting. If you like each other, why not look into each other’s eyes? The longer you wait, the more an unrealistic image is formed into your minds and the stronger disappointment can be.

– If for some reason a meeting is impossible right now (for example, your dialog partner lives in another country ten thousand miles away), use video chats as an alternative. Of course, it is not the same, but it is much better and more realistic than texting. Some modern dating websites offer built-in live chats. If the site doesn’t support this function, you may use Skype or any other similar service.

– Don’t expect too much. If you’ve built an idealistic image in your mind and fell in love with a non-existent imaginary girl instead of a real one, it is your fault, not hers. Keep in mind from the very beginning that she is an ordinary woman with her own merits and drawbacks.

Is There an Alternative?

If you know for sure that online dating is not for you, and still you want to find a foreign bride, you can use an alternative solution offered by some agencies. There are companies that organize group “marriage” tours to chosen countries, where special events are conducted. Commonly, these events involve a limited number of men and a lot of local women and girls, who want to get married to a foreigner. A tour can last up to several days for men and women to better get to know each other. It is a great chance to find a foreign bride in real life. It will all look as if you met at a nightclub or party. Services for an interpreter are usually offered too.

To Sum it up

Without doubt, online dating differs from real-life acquaintances. It has its own positive and negative sides. On the one hand, it is quick, convenient, and cheap. On the other hand, the chance of getting disappointed is much higher. To prevent all of the negative emotions associated with meeting a foreign girl and then seeing that she is completely different from that image that you’ve drawn in your mind, use tricks and strategies offered by dating experts. Ask for real (non-studio) photos, use video channels, and facilitate a real meeting.

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